Sharing what matters to us, how we want live, what is important to us in terms of relationships and well-being are really key conversations to help family and friends to know in advance of any deterioration in health. This will help future care be relevant, personal and meaningful.
A collaboration of many organisations have developed the What Matters Conversation website to help prompt these conversations.
Making the most of life
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What matters most to me?
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What may matter to me when I am less well or dying?
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What makes me feel most at peace?
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What are my networks of support and how can they be supported so that we all remain resilient and well cared for?
Care preferences
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When I am less well, where do I want to be cared for and by whom?
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Is there a point at which I would not want admission to a healthcare facility for further treatment which aims to preserve or extend life?
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Where might I prefer to be cared for when I am dying?
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Who do I want to make decisions for me if I am no longer able to make them for myself?
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Do I wish to make a will?
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Do I or my family have preferences for what happens after death?
This information is sourced from Life-Support UK
Conversations more specifically about care options and questions about death and dying are beautifully addressed in this compelling website - moving bubbles take you on a journey.
A third of us think about death or dying at least once a week, yet most of us find it hard to talk about.
Life Support helps you start these conversations.
A compelling 11 minute video capturing the power of What Matters to Me conversations